I am 41 years old and I have premenopause, and I tell you, it really messes with me.

One minute I am asleep then all of a sudden I am awake and stay awake. I get hot when it’s not and it’s not fun. Boob sweet and bum sweat, and just so much sweat!

It’s quite shameful getting off a seat and sweat is there. And one sad thing is I hate my body at the moment I have packed it on around my stomach. I feel unattractive, pushing my husband away, and it’s breaking my heart because he is my best friend and the love of my life( crying writing this) I hate feeling like this.

It is a lonely and awful thing we women go through.